Dating Safely: Practical Advice

Before you meet

• Keep conversations on the site until you are comfortable. There is no hurry to swap numbers.
• Do not share your home address, workplace or financial details with someone you have not met.
• A quick video call before a first date is a sensible way to check someone is who they say they are.

Spotting a scam

Be wary of anyone who asks for money, gift cards or bank details for any reason, however convincing the story. The same goes for someone who quickly wants to move you off the site, avoids video calls or always has a reason they cannot meet. Report them from their profile and stop replying.

The first date

• Meet somewhere public and busy, in daylight if you can.
• Tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to be home.
• Arrange your own transport there and back.
• If something feels wrong, leave. You do not owe anyone an explanation.

Reporting and blocking

You can block or report any member from their profile. If you believe you are in danger, call 999.