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Dating over 40 in the South West

Mature Dating in the West Country for Singles Over 40

Meet single men and women over 40 in Devon, Cornwall, Somerset, Dorset and around Bristol and Bath. Most are in their fifties and sixties, and they live close enough to meet for lunch, not three counties away.

  • Singles your own age
  • Search by town and distance
  • Free ID check and badge

Dating again, closer to home

If you are dating again after a long marriage, a divorce or losing a partner, the big dating apps can feel like they were built for someone else. They are full of people half your age, and the person who catches your eye often lives on the other side of the country. Mature Westcountry Singles is smaller and more settled. The site is for people over 40 in the South West, and you search by age and area, so the people you see are people of your own generation who could meet you for a coffee in Totnes or a walk along the front at Weston.

Most members are in their fifties and sixties, and a good number are over 65. Some are looking for a lasting relationship, some for companionship and someone to share days out with, and some just want to see whether they are ready. All of those are welcome. Say which you are on your profile and it saves everyone time.

Mature singles who share your corner of England

Mature dating works best when the other person understands your life without needing it explained. Our members know which roads to avoid on a summer Saturday and why a pasty tastes better on a harbour wall. The largest groups are in Devon, Somerset and Cornwall, and the busiest towns are Bristol, Exeter, Plymouth, Taunton and Truro, with plenty more around Bath, Torbay, Barnstaple, Yeovil, Weston-super-Mare and the Dorset coast.

Real people, a short drive from you

A few of our members, from Cornwall up to Gloucestershire.

  • Chardonnay, 57

    Plymouth

    I'm an outgoing lady with a love of good music and documentaries. If you enjoy socializing and meaningful chats over coffee or a drink, who knows

    Say hello
  • Elaine, 55

    Wadebridge

    By day, I really enjoy the rewards of my job, and at home, I’m kept happy company by my pets. When it comes to unwinding, I love to get creative with crafting or building Lego, but I’m equally excited by a vibrant night out at the theatre for dance and musicals. Whether exploring a bustling new city or finding somewhere completely off the beaten track, I love discovering new places.

    Say hello
  • Malcolm, 70

    Shirehampton

    I enjoy walks by the sea and sharing a bag of chips or a meal. Let's see how we get on!

    Say hello
  • Hunky, 66

    Upper Stratton

    So if you are interested get in touch thank you

    Say hello

Dating that fits the life you have now

People your own age

Set the age range you want and see singles in it, not twenty-somethings.

Close enough to meet

Search by town and distance, so a first date is a short drive, not a day out.

Suggestions each day

Matches picked for your area, your interests and what you are looking for.

Talk at your pace

Private messages, with no pressure to rush into a meeting.

See everything members can do.

Relax, we are looking out for you

Members can verify their ID for free and wear a badge on their profile, moderators and automatic checks weed out fake accounts, and the site warns you if someone tries to move you on to WhatsApp or text too quickly. Our safety guide covers the warning signs in plain English.

Dating again at 50, 60 or 70

Friendly, practical advice for your stage of life: dating over 50, dating over 60 and dating over 70. If you would like to meet people face to face first, our guide to singles events and friendship groups lists what to look for across the region, and there are first date ideas for when you are ready.

How we compare with OurTime, Match and the rest

Weighing up your options? We have set Mature Westcountry Singles side by side with OurTime, Match, SilverSingles and Facebook Dating. See all our comparisons, read our round-up of the best dating sites for over 50s, or read what people ask about Mature Westcountry Singles reviews, answered honestly. Every guide is in our articles.

Your questions, answered

How old are the members?

The site is for people over 40. Most members are in their fifties and sixties, and a good number are over 65.

Where do members live?

Across the South West of England. The largest groups are in Devon, Somerset and Cornwall, with more around Bristol, Bath, Dorset and Wiltshire.

I have not dated for years. Is that normal here?

Very. Plenty of members are starting again after a long marriage, a divorce or a bereavement. There is no right pace, and nobody expects you to know how online dating works on day one.

Under 40, or happy to meet people of any age? Visit Westcountry Singles. Who runs the site? Read about us.

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