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Dating in Exeter

Exeter Dating: Meet Singles in Exeter

Exeter sits at the centre of Devon with the coast and the moors on its doorstep. Meet Exeter singles for a walk along the quay or a drink in town.

  • Exeter, Exmouth and East Devon
  • Plenty of members over 40
  • Safe usernames, private location

A city that is easy to meet in

Exeter is compact, with the quayside, the cathedral green and the high street all within walking distance of the stations. That makes it one of the easiest places in the South West to arrange a first date, whether you live in the city or travel in from the towns around it.

It helps that so many routes meet here. The M5 ends on the edge of the city where the A30 and A38 carry on west, and trains come in from Exmouth, Barnstaple, Paignton and London. Someone in Crediton and someone in Sidmouth can both get to the quay without much fuss, which is half the battle when you are trying to arrange a first meeting.

Grown-up Exeter singles who know what they want

The university fills the city with students in term time, but they are not who you will find on Westcountry Singles. Exeter shares the top spot for members with Plymouth, and here people in their late forties and early fifties are by far the biggest group. Next come those in their late thirties and early forties, then a notable group past retirement age, larger than in most of our towns, with some in their late fifties and early sixties as well. Almost nobody here is under thirty-five.

So if you are searching for Exeter dating over 40, you are in good company. Settled careers, grown or growing children, and an interest in something real rather than a long run of chat. For a site built entirely around that stage of life, our sister site Mature Westcountry Singles is for people over 40.

Singles in Exeter and across Devon

A view of members who have chosen a town in Devon.

  • Miss independent, 38

    Plymouth

    I'm looking for a serious connection built on consistency and mutual affection. With my love for pets and the outdoors, I appreciate someone who shares those values. I enjoy a drink every now and then, and while I'm not religious, I believe in the power of honest communication. If you're serious about finding something meaningful, let's chat and see if we connect.

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  • ACZ1603, 42

    Newton Abbot

    Tattoo addict Animal lover Banter Queen Biker Social Butterfly

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  • Daniella, 43

    Ashwater

    I’m a warm, caring and genuine woman who values honesty, loyalty and good communication. I enjoy meaningful conversations, laughter, simple moments and getting to know someone on a deeper level. I’m open-minded, affectionate and looking forward to meeting someone special who appreciates love, respect and companionship.

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  • Netty, 37

    Plymouth

    Can be shy until I get to know you. I enjoy live music, comedy shows and going to the theatre

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  • Kate44, 44

    Newton Abbot

    I’m a 44-year-old woman who values emotional intelligence and meaningful conversations. At 5ft 4, I enjoy health and fitness as well as the occasional night out. I’m not religious but appreciate honesty and openness in a relationship. If you’re looking for something real and enjoy the outdoors, let’s chat.

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  • Scott, 37

    Plymouth

    I like to go for walks and find new places. I like to have a laugh and i only social drink.

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  • Guy444, 23

    Pinhoe

    I can say some random stuff when I'm being my self but I think it creates a really wholesome and open environment.

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First dates by the river, the walls and the estuary

The quay and the canal

The quay is good for a coffee or a walk along the river and canal, and the towpath is flat and busy enough for an easy first hour.

Around the cathedral

The cafés and pubs around the cathedral are central and busy, and the green is the classic place to say "I'm the one by the bench".

The city walls

Rougemont and Northernhay Gardens sit right beside the old city wall, quiet and in the centre at the same time.

Out to the estuary

Topsham and the Exe estuary are a short hop away. The trail along the water heads on to Exmouth for a longer second date.

For a day out later on, the edge of Dartmoor is under half an hour by car, and the forest paths on Haldon Hill are closer still. More suggestions in first date ideas for the South West.

Speed dating in Exeter, or something quieter

Speed dating in Exeter is one of the most searched-for evenings in the region, and events do run in the city from time to time. If you enjoy meeting lots of people in a night, our guide to speed dating and singles nights in the South West tells you how to find them. If you would rather talk to one person properly first, that is what a profile here is for.

The towns around Exeter

Exmouth, Topsham, Crediton, Cullompton and Honiton all share a search with the city, and many members include Tiverton and the wider East Devon coast as well. If you live out towards Taunton, look at Taunton dating too.

  • Exeter
  • Exmouth
  • Topsham
  • Crediton
  • Cullompton
  • Honiton
  • Tiverton
  • Sidmouth
  • Budleigh Salterton
  • Ottery St Mary
  • Dawlish
  • Newton Abbot

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Exeter dating questions

Is Exeter dating mostly students?

Not here. Very few Exeter members are under thirty-five, and the largest group is in their late forties and early fifties.

Can I include Exmouth and the East Devon coast?

Yes. Search from your own town and set the distance to cover the coast. Exmouth, Budleigh Salterton and Sidmouth sit comfortably in an Exeter search.

Find someone worth meeting on the quay

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